I have zero shame in this department. The difficult part is just starting. Craziest excuse I ever heard was in one of the focus groups on Cherry TV when one of the women said "growing up we all thought that was just for guys. It's a routine habit, like brushing my teeth or meditating. She had to choose the timing and how. If you don't, don't sweat it.
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Originally Posted by pulse View Post. Sex is way, WAY better. Perhaps I'm only so forgiving because I've thought about it so thoroughly. This is so fucked up and I would never ever let my children around someone that would do this.
In that case I would typically have a boyfriend whom I would then sleep with. Unless your partner wants to watch you enjoy yourself "however you usually do", and opens that can of worms. But when it comes to doing it myself, it often just seems like more trouble than it's worth; like it's a whole lot of work for that little bit of pleasure, and I'd rather read my book or watch a movie or whatever. It's a pretty sensitive subject, which is why I think I've only ever spoken about it anonymously. And if a girl is never satisfied, she's probably hardcore religious and doesn't do it for those reasons.
Never get the claws up there! I have never lied about it either. I lied about masturbation and about orgasming for years, and had post-orgasmic guilt to an extreme. Sometimes we just use our imagination. We probably have a much better time than guys do. A lot of women were raised to feel ashamed of self pleasuring. It was ridiculous and damaging, and I carried that guilt with me all the way into my adult years.